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		<title>What Innovation Can Do to Your Life?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Sep 2008 20:33:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s a talent that everyone has, yet they think they don&#8217;t. The power of innovation. If you&#8217;ve ever marvelled at somebody&#8217;s creative progess, guess what, you can create and innovate too. It just takes time. Everyone is born creative. The box of crayons in kindergarten were not limited to those who possessed potential; because the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://inspirationstationva.com/wp-content/uploads/inovation_bulb.jpg" alt="" title="inovation_bulb" width="300" height="300" align="right" class="alignright size-full wp-image-31" />It&#8217;s a talent that everyone has, yet they think they don&#8217;t. The power of innovation. If you&#8217;ve ever marvelled at somebody&#8217;s creative progess, guess what, you can create and innovate too. It just takes time. Everyone is born creative. The box of crayons in kindergarten were not limited to those who possessed potential; because the truth is, everybody has potential.</p>
<p>You know how long it took to learn to ride a bike or drive or to never commit the same mistake again? It&#8217;s the same with innovation. It takes a  bit of practice and a lot of time before this mind function comes easily  when called. This article will teach you a few tips on how to bring innovation into your life.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t listen to what other people say. Follow the beat of your own drum. Allowing for the input of other people will only bring cacophony to the music you are trying to make. If you have an original idea, don&#8217;t waste your time and effort trying to make people understand. They won&#8217;t. And the help you will probably get comes in the form of negative feedback. If all those geniuses listened to their peers, we would probably still be living in the middle ages.</p>
<p>Spend time on it. I cannot stress that enough, although, please do not mistake this tip to tell you to quit your day job entirely. Do not. This involves some tricky time management but with a little discipline you&#8217;ll be able to squeeze both in. </p>
<p>Exercise. Take a walk. Run a mile or two. Send all those endorphins coursing through your veins. Exercising certainly clears and relaxes your mind and allows for anything to pop up. </p>
<p>Record your dreams. Aren&#8217;t some of them just the craziest things that your conscious mind would never have thought of? If you&#8217;ve had these dreams before, and I&#8217;m sure have, this only shows you the untapped innovative power you have lying within. So jot down those notes. Those dreams may just create an innovative spark in you.</p>
<p>Find your own style. You can always tell a Van Gogh from a Matisse. You&#8217;ll know Hemingway wrote something by the choice of words on the paper. So it is the same with you. People will appreciate your innovation more because it is uniquely yours and that no one else would have thought of what you were thinking. That will let people see how valuable an asset you are. </p>
<p>Don&#8217;t hide behind nifty gadgets or tools. You don&#8217;t need the most expensive set of paints to produce a masterpiece. The same way with writing. You don&#8217;t need some expensive fountain pen and really smooth paper for a bestseller. In fact, J.K. Rowling wrote the first book of the Harry Potter Series on bits of tissue. So what if you&#8217;ve got an expensive SLR camera if you&#8217;re a crappy photographer? Who cares if you&#8217;ve got a blinging laptop if you can&#8217;t write at all? The artist actually reduces the number of tools he has as he gets better at his craft: he knows what works and what doesn&#8217;t. </p>
<p>Nothing will work without passion. What wakes you up in the mornings? What keeps the flame burning? What is the one thing that you&#8217;ll die if you don&#8217;t do? Sometimes people with talent are overtaken by the people who want it more. Think the hare and the tortoise. Ellen Degeneres once said that if you&#8217;re not doing something that you want to do, then you don&#8217;t really want to do it. And that&#8217;s true. Sometimes you just want something so bad you become a virtual unstoppable. And that is passion. Passion will keep you going. </p>
<p>Don&#8217;t worry about inspiration. You can&#8217;t force it; inspiration hits when you least expect it to, for those unpredictable yet inevitable moments you should prepare. An idea could strike you on the subway, yet alas, you poor unfortunate soul; you have no sheet of paper to scribble down a thought that could change the world. Avoid these disasters. Have a pen and paper within your arm&#8217;s reach at all times.</p>
<p>I hope this article has helped you bring more innovation into your life. Keep in mind that you&#8217;re doing these things for your own satisfaction and not anybody else&#8217;s. But soon enough they will notice, and everything should snowball from there.</p>
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		<title>Start your own coaching: 7 days program</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Sep 2008 14:35:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever been a coach to a neighborhood team? I know how it feels the first time I&#8217;ve coached a team of seven-year-old soccer kids and how much they can really test my patience, not to mention sanity as they run around kicking the ball like ants to a huge, white crumb. It feels [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever been a coach to a neighborhood team? I know how it feels the first time I&#8217;ve coached a team of seven-year-old soccer kids and how much they can really test my patience, not to mention sanity as they run around kicking the ball like ants to a huge, white crumb. It feels strange at first, having to be stared at by a bunch of kids who they will know that I&#8217;m not the one in the field. Sounds wrong in a sense, right? But what is the dead about coaching?</p>
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<p>Coaching is all about being a, well, &#8216;coach&#8217; in the corporate world of handlers, front-liners and even a couple of benchwarmers biding their time to be given a chance to perform. I know how that feels when I go back to my regular day job. Some players are just MVP material, and some of them are just to support the MVP&#8217;s so why bother sticking around? It sounds ironic when they say &#8216;there is no I in team&#8217;, but even the underachievers can be sore losers as well.</p>
<p>These are steps that can be done within the day, and no matter what, it takes determination to be a coach.</p>
<p>1. There is a WHOLE lot of talk these days about Corporate Team Building. There are many, many options: vacation packages, rope courses, on-going office games, ice-breakers, etc. Management can also purchase videos, books, and seminar packages to assist them in building up their organization into a team worthy of belonging. A little later I will give you some ideas of where you can go for information on these team-building tools.</p>
<p>2. The truth about motivation is waiting to be grasped! It is ripe and ready for you to put into action today. Don&#8217;t settle for mind-numbing gibberish. Get practical in 3 small ways to begin looking forward to your alarm clock sounding off each morning before you huddle with the team.</p>
<p>3. Experience is the best thing despite of what course you graduated in. There is something about being a people person who knows how to stir the energetic side of one individual, and more so when you mix it up with an entire team.</p>
<p>4. To question a person by his or her performance is sometimes required, but never question their knowledge or their intelligence. Sadly, I have seen a few mistakes from past coaches who never seem to understand what a player has to go through to get the job right. It will lead to further aggravation and maybe even hostility. If you want the job done right, then go do it yourself. You&#8217;ll see how it is to be at the receiving end and it will help your set a much better course for improvement.</p>
<p>5. Sending a player to the bench is probably the worse experience a coach has to go through, especially if your player is the top performer. In dealing with this kind of person, see to it that he spills his guts voluntarily. Egotism in a performer tends to make them lose their focus on even the smallest mistakes, then you can catch him or her red handed. Be firm, but understanding about it.</p>
<p>6. Don&#8217;t allow your position to blind you from what you are supposed to do. Even coaches are human enough to think that they are far more superior, but only by rank. Even if you have been in their shoes when you were their age, it&#8217;s better to dole out a piece of wisdom in order for them to realize that this will be for their own benefit.</p>
<p>7. Lastly, you should learn to trust yourself and your team. Decisions and performance are primarily your goals, and there are many of them to see if they could perform the task much more efficiently. So before you think about sending one member to the bench, have a good chat with him or her and see if they have any problems. If it&#8217;s too personal, then just encourage them to do their best and it also helps to give them a good, encouraging slap on the back.</p>
<p>I guess there&#8217;s all there is to it. Being a corporate drone myself, I know how important it is for a company to be successful, and we&#8217;re all part of that success. Coaches are there not to make your work a little difficult just because you have either an attitude problem or not much a performer, but they&#8217;re the guides who will help you perform as hard as you can possibly can. You&#8217;ll do them proud one of these days, as well as you.</p>
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		<title>SELF IMPROVEMENT AND SUCCESS!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jul 2008 03:44:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Everything that happens to us happens in purpose. And sometimes, one thing leads to another. Instead of locking yourself up in your cage of fears and crying over past heartaches, embarrassment and failures, treat them as your teachers and they will become your tools in both self improvement and success. I remember watching Patch Adams [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://inspirationstationva.com/wp-content/uploads/succeed.jpg" align="right" alt="" title="succeed" width="320" height="448" class="alignright size-full wp-image-34" />Everything that happens to us happens in purpose. And sometimes, one thing leads to another. Instead of locking yourself up in your cage of fears and crying over past heartaches, embarrassment and failures, treat them as your teachers and they will become your tools in both self improvement and success.</p>
<p>I remember watching Patch Adams – its my favorite movie, actually. Its one great film that will help you improve yourself. Hunter “patch” Adams is a medical student who failed to make it through the board exams. After months of suffering in melancholy, depression and suicidal attempts – he decided to seek for medical attention and voluntarily admitted himself in a psychiatric ward.  His months of stay in the hospital led him to meeting different kinds of people. Sick people in that matter. He met a catatonic, a mentally retarded, a schizophrenic and so on. Patch found ways of treating his own ailment and finally realized he has to get back on track. He woke up one morning realizing that after all the failure and pains he has gone through, he still want to become the a doctor. He carries with himself a positive attitude that brought him self improvement and success. He didn’t only improved himself, but also the life of the people around him and the quality of life. Did he succeed? Needless to say, he became the best damn doctor his country has ever known.</p>
<p>So, when does self improvement become synonymous with success? Where do we start? Take these tips, friends…<br />
*Stop thinking and feeling as if you’re a failure, because you’re not. How can others accept you if YOU can’t accept YOU?</p>
<p>*When you see hunks and models on TV, think more on self improvement, not self pitying. Self acceptance is not just about having nice slender legs, or great abs. Concentrate on inner beauty.</p>
<p>*When people feel so down and low about themselves, help them move up. Don’t go down with them. They’ll pull you down further and both of you will end up feeling inferior.</p>
<p>*The world is a large room for lessons, not mistakes. Don’t feel stupid and doomed forever just because you failed on a science quiz. There’s always a next time. Make rooms for self improvement.</p>
<p>*Take things one at a time. You don’t  expect black sheep’s to be goody-two-shoes in just a snap of a finger. Self improvement is a one day at a time process.</p>
<p>*Self improvement results to inner stability, personality development and dig this …. SUCCESS. It comes from self confidence, self appreciation and self esteem.</p>
<p>* Set meaningful and achievable goals. Self improvement doesn’t turn you to be the exact replica of Cameron Diaz or Ralph Fiennes. It hopes and aims to result to an improved and better YOU.</p>
<p>*Little things mean BIG to other people. Sometimes, we don’t realize that the little things that we do like a pat on the back, saying “hi” or “hello”, greeting someone “good day” or telling Mr. Smith something like “hey, I love your tie!” are simple things that mean so much to other people. When we’re being appreciative about beautiful things around us and other people, we also become beautiful to them.</p>
<p>*When you’re willing to accept change and go through the process of self improvement, it doesn’t mean that everyone else is. The world is a place where people of different values and attitude hang out. Sometimes, even if you think you and your best friend always like to do the same thing together at the same time, she would most likely decline an invitation for self improvement.</p>
<p>We should always remember that there’s no such thing as ‘over night success’. Its always a wonderful feeling to hold on to the things that you already have now, realizing that those are just one of the things you once wished for. A very nice quote says that “When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.”  We are all here to learn our lessons. Our parents, school teachers, friends, colleagues, officemates, neighbors… they are our teachers. When we open our doors for self improvement, we increase our chances to head to the road of success.</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jul 2008 18:00:17 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>There is so much to know about conversation that anyone, even I, could ever realize. You can go though watching talk shows; radio programs; clubs dedicated to public speaking; ordinary conversations; certain rules still apply when it comes to interaction through words. It may sound tedious, I know, but even though it&#8217;s your mouth that&#8217;s doing the work, your brain works twice as hard to churn out a lot of things you know. So what better way to start learning to be an effective communication is to know the very person closest to you: yourself.</p>
<p>1. What you know.<br />
Education is all about learning the basics, but to be an effective speaker is to practice what you&#8217;ve learned. My stint as guest at every Toastmasters&#8217; meeting I go to taught me that we all have our limitations, but that doesn&#8217;t mean we can&#8217;t learn to keep up and share what we know.</p>
<p>2. Listening.<br />
It&#8217;s just as important as asking questions. Sometimes listening to the sound of our own voice can teach us to be a little bit confident with ourselves and to say the things we believe in with conviction.</p>
<p>3. Humility<br />
We all make mistakes, and sometimes we tend to slur our words, stutter, and probably mispronounce certain words even though we know what it means, but rarely use it only to impress listeners. So in a group, don&#8217;t be afraid to ask if you&#8217;re saying the right word properly and if they&#8217;re unsure about it then make a joke out of it. I promise you it&#8217;ll make everyone laugh and you can get away with it as well.</p>
<p>4. Eye Contact<br />
There&#8217;s a lot to say when it comes to directing your attention to your audience with an eye-catching gaze. It&#8217;s important that you keep your focus when talking to a large group in a meeting or a gathering, even though he or she may be gorgeous.</p>
<p>5. Kidding around<br />
A little bit of humor can do wonders to lift the tension, or worse boredom when making your speech. That way, you&#8217;ll get the attention of the majority of the crowd and they&#8217;ll feel that you&#8217;re just as approachable, and as human to those who listen.</p>
<p>6. Be like the rest of them<br />
Interaction is all about mingling with other people. You&#8217;ll get a lot of ideas, as well as knowing what people make them as they are.</p>
<p>7. Me, Myself, and I<br />
Admit it, there are times you sing to yourself in the shower. I know I do! Listening to the sound of your own voice while you practice your speech in front of a mirror can help correct the stress areas of your pitch. And while you&#8217;re at it you can spruce up as well.</p>
<p>8. With a smile<br />
A smile says it all much like eye contact. There&#8217;s no point on grimacing or frowning in a meeting or a gathering, unless it&#8217;s a wake. You can better express what you&#8217;re saying when you smile.</p>
<p>9. A Role Model<br />
There must be at least one or two people in your life you have listened to when they&#8217;re at a public gathering or maybe at church. Sure they read their lines, but taking a mental note of how they emphasize what they say can help you once you take center stage.</p>
<p>10. Preparation<br />
Make the best out of preparation rather than just scribbling notes and often in a hurried panic. Some people like to write things down on index cards, while other resort to being a little more silly as they look at their notes written on the palm of their hand (not for clammy hands, please). Just be comfortable with what you know since you enjoy your work.</p>
<p>And that about wraps it up. These suggestions are rather amateurish in edgewise, but I&#8217;ve learned to empower myself when it comes to public or private speaking and it never hurts to be with people to listen how they make conversations and meetings far more enjoyable as well as educational.</p>
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